Girls are not easy to comprehend or handle.

女生讓人琢磨不透，也難以對付。

While mood swings and unpredictable behaviour are common traits of women, there are a handful who add unreasonable difficulty in managing them. If you are in a relationship with one such woman, then you need to hold your ground and learn how to tactfully handle her and the situation.

情緒波動和行為率性已經(jīng)是女性眾所周知的特點，而有些女性簡直不可理喻、難以對付。如果你恰好在跟這樣的女性交往，那你可得穩(wěn)住立場，懂得怎樣機智地制服她以便控制形勢。

1. Don’t compromise

絕不妥協(xié)

A difficult girlfriend can jeopardise your relationship and also your sense of self. So as to ensure she doesn’t harm your mental health in any way, you must learn to hold your ground and not over compromise.

野蠻女友不僅不利于你倆的關(guān)系，還會危及你的自我意識。為了防止她危害你的心理健康，你必須懂得堅定立場、絕不妥協(xié)。

2. Draw boundaries

劃清界限

Having well defined boundaries will also help in handling the situation. Have a clear sense of what behaviour is acceptable and what is not. If she oversteps, then it falls on you to get her back on track. You can do this in a gentle yet strict manner; you don’t have to get aggressive or violent.

界限分明也有利于控制形勢。你要清楚哪些行為可以接受，哪些則不可以。如果她不規(guī)矩，你就有責(zé)任幫她恢復(fù)常態(tài)。你可以溫和而嚴(yán)肅地處理此事，這樣就不會顯得粗暴無禮了。

3. Communicate

溝通交流

Maybe she is behaving difficult because she is insecure or she isn’t happy with something in the relationship. If she doesn’t initiate conversation, you should. Ask her what is wrong and why she is behaving the way she is. Communicating and talking over things can help salvage the situation.

有時候女友表現(xiàn)野蠻或許只是因為她沒有安全感，或許是對你倆的關(guān)系不甚滿意。如果她沒提出要談一談，那你就有責(zé)任這么做。問問她到底怎么了，為什么要這樣做。交流談心有利于解開癥結(jié)。

4. Patience

耐心

Sometimes, what action cannot achieve, patience can. The key to a successful relationship is patience and you must make it a point to practise some.

有時候，行動倒不如等待。耐心是一段好關(guān)系的關(guān)鍵，你必須引以重視并時常踐行。

5. Spiritual guiding

精神開悟

Perhaps what you need to get through a difficult relationship is some spiritual intervention. Seek the blessings and guidance of a higher authority and they might just show you the right path.

有時候要對付不良關(guān)系就得給她“洗腦”。向長輩尋求開導(dǎo)和指引吧，或許你能茅塞頓開。

6. Seek help

尋求幫助

There is no shame in seeking professional help. Go for couple counseling sessions and work through your problems with the assistance of a professional. This might really help save your relationship and will help her understand how she needs to take it down a notch.

尋求專業(yè)幫助沒什么好丟臉的。找個婚姻咨詢所，通過專業(yè)人員的幫助解決你倆的問題。他們或許真能拯救你倆的關(guān)系，讓你女友懂得怎樣放低姿態(tài)。

7. Ignore/call it off

視而不見/結(jié)束關(guān)系

If the situation gets unreasonable and the girlfriend, too demanding, it is best to ignore the whole thing. If that doesn’t work, then it is time to call it off.

如果形勢無法控制，而女友又太吹毛求疵，你最好還是視而不見吧。如果這還不管用，那是時候說再見了。

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